There are 4 places that you might find helpful. The most obvious might be the @Abdali Souk, which has a ton of vintage clothing if you're willing to take the time to look for it. You should also check out @Italian Hospital street, which has second-hand shops and lots of vintage as well. There are two online shops based in Amman that have vintage clothing: @TopsyLovesSid (www.facebook.com/TopsyLove) and @Yours & Mine
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